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If He Wanted to, He Would (Biblical)
the sacred heart represents Jesus Christs' divine love for humanity Today, after going to the cobbler, I stopped in to see my New York grandpa. We always talk about the weather, food, and our love lives. He knew that my most recent relationship wouldn't work out and we meditated on how "people aren't the same anymore, men don't come up to women and say 'hello, I think you're beautiful, i'd like to take you on a date' and women get scared when they do" and when you talk to som
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4 days ago


A look back at Lover Girl Fall
Hello all of you, My dedicated, wonderful, kind, generous readers and subscribers. Not a day goes by that I don’t step back, grateful...
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Dec 8, 2024


Love, Sex, and Literature #7
Does your parents' style of affection influence your relationships? Ask Anderson II a question here
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Oct 23, 2024


Rules for Lovergirl Fall
One of my best friends just broke up with their boyfriend. And I am so happy for them, because I've watched them clear space out in their...
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Sep 18, 2024


Are you in love?
Love in the City, Part 2: What can we learn from those who have what we're looking for?
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Sep 14, 2024


NYFW & an Update on my Novel
Yesterday, when I’d woken up, I was prepared to embark on my regular weekend morning — nursing a hangover by drinking a ton of coffee in...
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Sep 9, 2024


Why are you single?
All summer I asked New York what we're looking for and why we haven't found it yet. Here's what I learned.
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Sep 5, 2024


Love, Apptually
An alive girl reflection on love in the digital age This January, I swore off Hinge forever. I was attempting to shed a bad habit I’d...
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Sep 2, 2024


I am deserving of a good thing
And a Salmon Recipe Hello hello hello hello. I’m writing from a cafe in the West Village. NYU students are milling around with excitement...
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Aug 31, 2024


Lovergirls, NOT Tradwives
A case for Lovergirl Fall Hello my wonderful liminal and irl community. I hope you’re enjoying each writer’s takeover of the Hot Literati...
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Aug 27, 2024


I want my own Marriage, Not ur Open One
& Maude Latour's New Album I try to separate my identity of internet girl and writer and girl and writer and writer and person being...
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Aug 16, 2024


One Bar, 3 Dates
The Mulberry in Nolita, 3 times over I never know if I’m addictive, or if I like routine, or if the answer is somewhere in between. It’s...
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Jul 30, 2024


LOVE (SEX) & LITERATURE #6
We are in the sticky depths of the summer now, and half the year has passed us by. What have you done with it? Have you found what you’ve...
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Jul 24, 2024


Hungover Musings, Summer Flings
26. Little Deaths/Delights For better or worse, or better and worse, life always feels like some sort of dream to me. This comes up a lot...
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Jul 7, 2024


Anatomy of an Oyster / Who’s buying my dinner tonight?
Dripping sweat from scalp to white lace panty line, it’s barely June and I’m wondering who’s buying my dinner tonight. The summers of my...
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Jun 15, 2024


5 Dates, One Week (Again)
Hi Literatis. I hope you all have had a wonderful week and weekend. I have had what I like to call a "memory-dense" one. I started using...
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Jun 9, 2024


LOVE, SEX, & LITERATURE #5
by Anderson Love, love, love. Venus is in Gemini now and everything is tinted by red-tinged heat. Are you in love? Do you want to be? Are...
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Jun 5, 2024


Me & Mr. Chalamet
My love life was more fun when you all had opinions :)
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May 10, 2024


Love (Sex) & Literature #4
Dating multiple people, unrequited love, and more.
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May 5, 2024


Decentering Men Doesn't Mean u h8 Them
One of the funniest things to happen to me last year was someone commenting that my videos made them hate men less.
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Apr 4, 2024
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