Hello my beautiful Hot Literatis. I'm very excited to be sharing this post today, because I think it's something that took me SO long to learn but really changed my life and my relationship with myself. I'm a very loving person. I do this thing, where I want to give everything I have to everybody I meet, but then this creates self-resentment and self-betrayal when you have none of yourself left for the things you want to do or the person you want to become. In addition to bei

On July 25th, I, hailo, went to Lore-- a new sauna in Noho for The Bathhouse Block Party event. Lore is one of many new saunas in New York as the wellness industry continues to expand and clubbing begins to dwindle. I am no better than the headlines. I am a member of Gen Z who gets off on being in bed by midnight these days. And I want to make sure that my eggs are cage free. But hey, what can I say? It feels good to feel good. Culture of Bathing "a place for those already in