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Transference
Couch and footstool with bone carvings and glass inlays Roman, 1st–2nd century CE, the met site I was beginning to grasp a sense of community around the two-month mark of living in my new space. Something about the freezing over of November, caught in a dyad with a sun that sets before supper, gave way to a communal longing for human interaction. I found my community in the form of my local coffee shop, as many in the city do. My desire for connection turns me into a caffeine
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Dec 15, 2025


If He Wanted to, He Would (Biblical)
the sacred heart represents Jesus Christs' divine love for humanity Today, after going to the cobbler, I stopped in to see my New York grandpa. We always talk about the weather, food, and our love lives. He knew that my most recent relationship wouldn't work out and we meditated on how "people aren't the same anymore, men don't come up to women and say 'hello, I think you're beautiful, i'd like to take you on a date' and women get scared when they do" and when you talk to som
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Dec 8, 2025


I want my own Marriage, Not ur Open One
& Maude Latour's New Album I try to separate my identity of internet girl and writer and girl and writer and writer and person being...
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Aug 16, 2024


One Bar, 3 Dates
The Mulberry in Nolita, 3 times over I never know if I’m addictive, or if I like routine, or if the answer is somewhere in between. It’s...
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Jul 30, 2024


LOVE (SEX) & LITERATURE #6
We are in the sticky depths of the summer now, and half the year has passed us by. What have you done with it? Have you found what you’ve...
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Jul 24, 2024


Hungover Musings, Summer Flings
26. Little Deaths/Delights For better or worse, or better and worse, life always feels like some sort of dream to me. This comes up a lot...
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Jul 7, 2024


Intern Week, Actually good NYC Vespers, Dating Column Meta Commentary
25. Little Deaths/Delights LITTLE DEATHS ♡ing being alone𓇢𓆸perhaps it's a defense mechanism When a date is too impressed by taste𓇢𓆸I...
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Jun 23, 2024


Anatomy of an Oyster / Who’s buying my dinner tonight?
Dripping sweat from scalp to white lace panty line, it’s barely June and I’m wondering who’s buying my dinner tonight. The summers of my...
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Jun 15, 2024


5 Dates, One Week (Again)
Hi Literatis. I hope you all have had a wonderful week and weekend. I have had what I like to call a "memory-dense" one. I started using...
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Jun 9, 2024


LOVE, SEX, & LITERATURE #5
by Anderson Love, love, love. Venus is in Gemini now and everything is tinted by red-tinged heat. Are you in love? Do you want to be? Are...
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Jun 5, 2024


Me & Mr. Chalamet
My love life was more fun when you all had opinions :)
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May 10, 2024


Love (Sex) & Literature #4
Dating multiple people, unrequited love, and more.
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May 5, 2024


How to Be Your Own Muse
Esther Yi’s Y/N was a perfect example of how not to be your own muse.
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Apr 27, 2024




I didn't meet the LOML @ Ludlow House
I, Bella, have been to Ludlow House a few times now so I know the drill -- ring the doorbell, tell the pretty girl at the front your name...
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Mar 21, 2024


Love (Sex) & Literature #3
“If two people have an on and off relationship, and one side is still feeling guilty...
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Mar 7, 2024


Love (Sex) & Literature #2
gossip guy - i just started seeing someone (3 weeks in) after i'd sworn off men for a while...
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Feb 29, 2024


Love (Sex) & Literature #1
Welcome to the newest addition to Hot Literati: Love, Sex, & Literature! Here you’ll find semi-regular answers to your deepest and...
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Feb 23, 2024


Dissociative Girlhood through the Eyes of a Millionaire Twice my Age
FOREVER LOLITA I flew to New York alone for the first time at 17. I had just won Miss Teen USA and was coming to the city for media training and a press tour. I wore a denim mini-skirt I got at the pacsun in the mall where I also bought my first bra. I was reading The Sun Also Rises and sat next to a man who resembled the professor of my first writing class at Princeton. The man, my seat neighbor, asked me about Hemingway. I said something, mentioned that I’d just graduated h
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Jan 1, 2024
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