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How I became an Angel
Or how to become a better you Hailo is a bit of a character to me, she is someone who I become when life gets hard or when I need to do something brave. As ridiculous as it is, I think alter ego or persona building is extremely effective, and more importantly fun . My Princeton boyfriend began calling me hailo during our relationship. The name took other shapes like “swailo.” I began using hailo as an online name early on TikTok, then again when I became a discord moderator a
hailo
5 days ago


How I Got Unbelievably, Undeniably Hotter
During the summer of 2024, i was pretty unhappy with my life and i began to set all of these arbitrary rules for myself. Like the fact that I would run every morning and only listen to music that made me feel hot after a long stretch of depression rock and roll, and probably most importantly, that I wouldn't complain anymore. About anything . Whether you want to call it manifestation or what Proverbs says about protecting your thoughts or quantum leaping, my life changed real
hailo
Mar 26


How to Let Go
Or, How to Clean Up Your Life Every since I was a little girl, I have been a hoarder of memories. I've always treated my life like a really good meal that you want to savor. Saving the best part for last and being upset when it's all gone. Actually, always isn't a fair word. It's beautiful, but it's never true. Last Friday, I had the honor of giving a talk at Sarah Lawrence. We sat in the Graduate building as I read them a letter a boy wrote to me at seventeen that I read whe
hailo
Mar 2


Three Ways Reading Dostoevsky Can Make You Hotter
Hope you guys enjoy! Comment your fav Dostoevsky book and don't forget to read and write today <3
hailo
Feb 22


Dating in London
Hello! Today I'm joined by Jannah and Isabella of Art Dating Club. They are fabulous new friends of mine from London, where we hosted our own joint event together. They're two bright, kind, talented young women who joined me to discuss to dating scene, their experience starting and growing a rotating event, and their own creative work and how they find time for it. Follow Jannah here Follow Isabella here Follow Art Dating Club here
hailo
Feb 20


Transference
Couch and footstool with bone carvings and glass inlays Roman, 1st–2nd century CE, the met site I was beginning to grasp a sense of community around the two-month mark of living in my new space. Something about the freezing over of November, caught in a dyad with a sun that sets before supper, gave way to a communal longing for human interaction. I found my community in the form of my local coffee shop, as many in the city do. My desire for connection turns me into a caffeine
Marissa Vivian
Dec 15, 2025


If He Wanted to, He Would (Biblical)
the sacred heart represents Jesus Christs' divine love for humanity Today, after going to the cobbler, I stopped in to see my New York grandpa. We always talk about the weather, food, and our love lives. He knew that my most recent relationship wouldn't work out and we meditated on how "people aren't the same anymore, men don't come up to women and say 'hello, I think you're beautiful, i'd like to take you on a date' and women get scared when they do" and when you talk to som
hailo
Dec 8, 2025


I want my own Marriage, Not ur Open One
& Maude Latour's New Album I try to separate my identity of internet girl and writer and girl and writer and writer and person being...
hailo
Aug 16, 2024


One Bar, 3 Dates
The Mulberry in Nolita, 3 times over I never know if I’m addictive, or if I like routine, or if the answer is somewhere in between. It’s...
hailo
Jul 31, 2024


LOVE (SEX) & LITERATURE #6
We are in the sticky depths of the summer now, and half the year has passed us by. What have you done with it? Have you found what you’ve...
Anderson
Jul 24, 2024


Hungover Musings, Summer Flings
26. Little Deaths/Delights For better or worse, or better and worse, life always feels like some sort of dream to me. This comes up a lot...
hailo
Jul 7, 2024


Intern Week, Actually good NYC Vespers, Dating Column Meta Commentary
25. Little Deaths/Delights LITTLE DEATHS ♡ing being alone𓇢𓆸perhaps it's a defense mechanism When a date is too impressed by taste𓇢𓆸I...
hailo
Jun 23, 2024


Anatomy of an Oyster / Who’s buying my dinner tonight?
Dripping sweat from scalp to white lace panty line, it’s barely June and I’m wondering who’s buying my dinner tonight. The summers of my...
Mar
Jun 15, 2024


5 Dates, One Week (Again)
Hi Literatis. I hope you all have had a wonderful week and weekend. I have had what I like to call a "memory-dense" one. I started using...
hailo
Jun 9, 2024


LOVE, SEX, & LITERATURE #5
by Anderson Love, love, love. Venus is in Gemini now and everything is tinted by red-tinged heat. Are you in love? Do you want to be? Are...
Anderson
Jun 5, 2024


Me & Mr. Chalamet
My love life was more fun when you all had opinions :)
hailo
May 10, 2024


Love (Sex) & Literature #4
Dating multiple people, unrequited love, and more.
Anderson
May 6, 2024


How to Be Your Own Muse
Esther Yi’s Y/N was a perfect example of how not to be your own muse.
nwakaego
Apr 27, 2024




I didn't meet the LOML @ Ludlow House
I, Bella, have been to Ludlow House a few times now so I know the drill -- ring the doorbell, tell the pretty girl at the front your name...
Bella Ve
Mar 21, 2024
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