Erotic intelligence, embodied desire, and shedding the shame that holds you back
Sex has become performance. You're managing their pleasure, monitoring your body, wondering if you're doing it "right." The shame runs so deep you don't even notice it anymore.
Your erotic life deserves better than this.
The Transformation: This 31 page guided journal (18+ only) teaches you how to build genuine sexual confidence—the kind that comes from understanding desire, communicating what you want, and giving yourself permission to want it.
Through 5 modules grounded in sexuality research and psychology, you'll learn:
- How desire actually works (not how you think it should work)
- Where your sexual shame came from and how to release it
- How to communicate what you want without apology
- Real erotic intelligence that transforms connection
What's Inside:
→ 5 comprehensive modules with research from sexology and psychology
→ Reflection prompts that identify shame and rebuild confidence
→ Creative exercises completable in 24-72 hours
→ The Hot Literati Homework: Your shareable essay (if you choose)
→ Reading recommendations on sexuality and desire
Content Warning: This guide contains explicit discussions of sexuality and desire. Designed for adults 18+ only.
Time: 5-7 hours total
Format: Instant-download PDF (print at home, work through with your own journal)
Outcome: You know what you want. You can ask for it. Your erotic life is yours.
Frequently Asked Questions
Do I need to buy a journal separately?
No. These guides are designed for you to print at home and work through with your own journal or notebook.
What's your refund policy?
If you're not satisfied with your purchase, email hello@pulchritudemedia.com within 7 days for a full refund. No questions asked. We want you to feel confident trying Hot Literati guides.
How long does each guide take to complete?
Most guides take 5-7 hours total. All exercises are designed to be completed within days, not weeks or months.
Can I do these in any order?
Yes. While they're organized in phases, each guide stands alone.
What format will I receive?
Instant-download PDF optimized for home printing. No physical product will be shipped.
What if I don't finish?
These guides are yours forever. No timeline, no expiration. Come back whenever you're ready.
Is this like regular self-help?
No. These are intellectually rigorous guided journals grounded in research from psychology, neuroscience, philosophy, and sociology. No toxic positivity. No empty platitudes.
What is The Hot Literati Homework?
Each guide ends with a synthesis project—usually a 750-1000 word essay where you teach what you've learned. We encourage you to publish and share it with #HotLiterati.
Join Hot, Cool, Well-Read People Worldwide
When you complete a guide and share your homework, you join thousands of Hot Literati members who are becoming hotter, smarter, and more capable together.
Tag @hotliterati • Use #HotLiterati • Email hello@pulchritudemedia.com
